The "winter madness" period has just begun. In a few months, the summer vacation season will begin. It is worth considering for a moment what we expect from holiday flirtations. Adventurous romance, affection, or just making ourselves feel better in pleasant company? On vacation, we meet many people who always seem more interesting to us than those we know on a daily basis, and we make friends more easily.
New friends, new acquaintances, new, for many even the first in life, fascination with the opposite sex. He will spot her on the slopes, she his on Krupówki. They make a date - the first, second, third. Unbeknownst to them, acquaintance takes on a dizzying pace and very often the distance from the first captured glance to bed becomes very short. Under normal, non-holiday conditions, this would happen more slowly, but in February, March, July and August, one goes all the way. The realization that we only have two weeks makes reason go by the wayside. Meanwhile, one never knows when the desire for a lasting relationship will fall upon a person, when he or she feels that he or she would like to be with someone and doesn't want to say "goodbye" to the other party at all. It will be a time of great emotions, which will often be followed by small dramas that always seem great to the person experiencing them. April, September and October then become the months of the disappointed, the despairing, the disillusioned, those who have failed in love, what was supposed to be for life, but turned out not to have even lasted a month. Therapy offices are full of people whose world has collapsed after the vacations. It is worth reflecting on the climate of male-female contacts during vacation periods.
Men, if they go on vacation by themselves, without family, assume in advance that it will be ''a little crazy.'' Hence so often in film comedies a man is shown nervously removing his wedding ring in the toilet of a train. Women, on the other hand, not infrequently hope to establish a lasting friendship or even love. A love, like a Sicilian lightning bolt, that will be born in three days and will, like in a fairy tale, last until the end of life. Such a modern edition of Tristan and Isolde, as a counterbalance to the ragtime melodramas broadcast on television. So, if on vacation a woman is really looking for fairy tale love rather than erotic adventure, she should wait until the end of the vacation with binding decisions to see what is left of that love when she returns home. If He has truly loved, He will do everything to find His woman, even at the end of Poland. And he will come. And he will continue the acquaintance. Lack of sexual contact will not discredit the woman in his eyes. After all, if he looks at the woman seriously, the fact that they did not go to bed right away will count in her favor. After all, the irresistible conclusion arises that she doesn't sleep with everyone at every opportunity. At the birth of this true feeling, this is quite crucial. Most men on vacation also dream of love, but the kind of "biweekly" love that will add variety to their weekday married life. Likewise think most single or single male hotel staff hunting for single women, usually the prettiest ones, or "single " moms tiring of their children and dreaming of an evening of dancing.
If a woman also travels with such motivation in order to experience an adventurous affair or to make herself feel better, it is only worth remembering that through sexual contact one can be infected not only with AIDS, but also with more "mundane" diseases such as hepatitis, cytomegalovirus, chlamydia, condyloma acuminata, vaginal cysts, vaginal gonorrhea and syphilis. Of course, it is indisputable that a woman who decides to have a "moment of oblivion" is protected against pregnancy, which is undesirable under these conditions. The reasons in the search for "new sensations" in marital relationships usually lie in the feeling that the partnership arrangement has been completely exploited and that it would be necessary or desirable to liberate oneself from it. Such feelings are usually typical around the fourth and then the seventh year of marriage. Sexual intercourse plays an important role in the course of this phase, to the extent that it provides too little satisfaction. It then happens that one or both partners seek satisfaction of their needs, including sexual needs, outside the marriage.
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